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Service

We teach people how to treat us.

If we allow people to cheat us or mistreat us, then, it happens.

If we push back on people, who fail to harmonize with who we are, usually things will change in our favor.

No mistreatment of any kind is comfortable.

Customer Service is a MUST for people doing business with other people.

The manager of a restaurant on Fort Lauderdale Beach has repudiated the opinions of nine customers, who chose to dine at this establishment. One customer received raw meat loaf and burnt veggies. Another received a hamburger with no fries. A third received what was said to be beef ribs, when, in fact, they were pork ribs and this fact was highly disputed by the cook, himself!

When two of the nine called the manager the next morning, neither received a response.  When one of these two addressed the manager face-to-face, the following day, he said he never received her message.  His response to meeting these two ladies of color was, “Oh, I heard about you. You are trouble.”

Treatment that is unacceptable must be discussed and this may be the perfect forum for that discussion because our destiny is tied up with how we allow people to treat us, how we give service, and how we receive it.

In my estimation, this manager has no concept of customer service nor does he care to know anything about it. The cook brought us dessert, after I said, “We should get free dessert.” He assumed that would be that. He never considered the other repercussions of this bad choice by nine hungry travel agents.  He didn’t consider that we were there to review this restaurant for blogs, advertisers, magazines, newspapers, etc. He only saw nine people making trouble for him in a restaurant where two people were before we entered and only three others came in while we were there and their food came out before ours and we didn’t all get served for nearly an hour.

parrot_lounge_Fort_LauderdaleNow, this wouldn’t matter so much if this restaurant wasn’t in the heart of the vacation capital of the world, Fort Lauderdale, historically known for the decades of Spring Breakers and hundreds of thousands of snowbirds, particularly, Canadians.  So, you might think that the health department would have some concerns about someone getting deathly ill from raw meatloaf.  But neither the waitress and cook, who assured me that the pork ribs were beef (and one of our party took one of the ribs with her as proof that we had pork and not beef), nor the manager, who admitted that they were pork – not one of the three considered that any one of us -nine hungry people who made a concerted choice to eat at the restaurant, where two parties were living – could work for the health department and file a report that could close that establishment for good or write a blog that could be read by any and every person looking for the perfect getaway in South Florida.

Amid the variety of choices nearby, this group chose not to walk away from the property but to spend their vacation funds at The Village Cafe attached to the Fort Lauderdale Beach Resort.  On top of that, three of us chose to dine at the Parrot, down the block from the resort, where we were served nearly burnt shrimp, mahi, and chicken wingettes that were obviously cooked in old oil.

Now, come on, the health department does enter the minds of the proprietors of these establishments, ever?

Your thoughts may be directed in the comments section below.

This vision I align with:

A Vision for Worldwide Efficiency

Adamma Holyheart writes: I would like to contribute the following for consideration to your Vision Alignment Program to be shared with your email group. I call it a Vision for Worldwide Efficiency.

We intend and envision from this moment forward that all modes of transportation, all business and industry, all forms of communications and energies, all educational systems, all medical and social organizations, all government bodies, the administration of justice and the correction of misdeeds are instantly and forever conducted with absolute efficiency; that time, natural resources, transference of information, knowledge, reason and righteousness are efficiently utilized and administered without waste or delay so as to attain a perfected world.

 
As you line up with this Vision, it becomes your Vision too! 
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Opportunities Abound

What is opportunity?

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Last week, on a very sunny day, I took the opportunity to walk to the beach for the first time since I moved into my friend’s townhouse.  I left at 10:35 a.m. and arrived at the beach at 11:18 a.m.  Wow! living this close to the beach is a real joy and such a great OPPORTUNITY!  Today, it’s pouring rain and had I not taken that walk, last week, I wouldn’t have the OPPORTUNITY to write this post.

All of my youth, I wondered should I regret having my children so young. My son Michael was born one month after my 16th birthday.  My daughter Michelle (Mimi) was born 16 days after my 18th birthday.  Regrets? Not at all because by the time I was 40, they were grown and out on their own.  My daughter had her first of two sons, when she was 18.  By 25, she had all three of her kids – Robert, Anthony, and Vernechia. And best of all, my second great grandson was born on April 11, 2013.  The first one, Jayvian is a total delight in my life and I know Zyan will be just as wonderful.

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Having several girlfriends who decided early on not to have children, I realize the blessing it is to be a mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  Kids may not seem very important as they grown but when they do grow up and value you, it is a great opportunity to share very meaningful moments.  For several years, my granddaughter Vernechia, whom we call Muki, didn’t take to me. But when she turned 20, that changed and I so love our exchanges about life and just laughing with her, now.

My son’s daughter’s Maelle and Sophia are so delightful. It’s a wonderful opportunity to watch grandchildren grow into adults.  Since you never know  where your blessings will come from, I have to admit that I’m looking forward to the times when I will spend with them, when they get into their twenties.  As a youthful grandmother and provided long life is my destiny, like my sweet father who turns 94 on May 7th, I believe the best years are ahead of me, especially when it comes to my grandchildren and great grandchildren.

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The most interesting thing about life is how opportunities present themselves through people you meet. Just this month, I’m been invited to:

  • A cruise on Royal Caribbean Majestic of the Seas out of Miami
  • The WIMUST Conference in July, in Fiuggi, Italy, for which I am raising funds for my flight, [Whoever puts me over $600, today, will get a FREE CD from WIJSF.  You may donate here: http://gofundme.com/jc-wimust]
  • The 7th Annual Distinctive Women in Hawaii History Program in August to sing and do a presentation about Billie Holiday, Dinah Washington, and the Andrew Sisters.

Each of these opportunities arose from meeting powerful women face-to-face or online.

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I’m accessing all of these adventurous opportunities because sitting still never results in anything but stillness.

Then, I took the opportunity to create a graphic for my son, Michael’s new radio show at Lehman College. He likes it. I’m glad.

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Also, I took the opportunity to take a leave of absence from my doctoral program that I started in May 2010.  After two years straight of doing papers and lots of reading, I’m going for the gusto in Italy and Hawaii and taking the summer off!!!  I’ll go back to my online studies on August 4th but it will be like a breath of fresh air to not have to read and write mounds of pages about research, business, and marketing!

Finally, on May 18, I will be in the cast of my daughter’s play WOMAN! THE MUSICAL for the second time, this year.

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Yes, yes, yes, opportunities abound!!!

I AM the Grateful Goddess

Diva JC

The Tingling Effect

Well, Spring has definitely sprung. You know what I mean! You’re seeing good looking men and feeling that tingling effect in place where you didn’t think tingling could happen any more.  Young women know exactly what I mean. But having had this feeling for much longer, women over 60 understand this phenomenon even more!

Love is in the air. Think about it. It happens every single year and there’s nothing you can do about it. Like there’s nothing you can do about hayfever.

Spring fever is in the air!

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My grandson Robert Logan just received his second son Zyan Blake Pierre Logan into the world on April 11 2013 at 6:42 a.m. My great grandson is an early bird and will definitely leave his mark on the world. I know he was made out of love!

Now, we all know HOW Zyan got here!

You don’t?  Well, let me tell ya!

See Robert met this lady named Coco Millions and za za boom, it was on and poppin’.  She has three children and the youngest is named Logan! (Go figure)

Anyhoo!  They started knockin’ dem boots and lo, and behold, here commmmmeZzzZ Zyan Blake Pierre Logan.

Now, it if that’s not the name of a playa, nothin’ iz!

And I’m his gran gran mere!

If ya know my history, (or is that herstory), then, ya kin understand what’s exactly going on har.

LOVE IS IN THE AIR!

Now, where’s my fifth husband????

Diva JC

Feeling Good!

JUST EPIC!

THE ARTS REPORTER WEBTV SERIES

With Joan CartwrightSteve MooreMichael A. McFadden & Urban Light!!

I’ve been listening to this video for the past two days.  It’s a reminder to LOVE and FEEL GOOD!

When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you!” ~ Lao Tzu

Since I recorded my debut CD “Feelin’ Good” (1995), I’ve know how powerful the thought of feeling good and reminding others to feel good really is.

I’ve sold thousands of this CD and even children remind me how good it makes them feel.
Feelin’ Good by Joan Cartwright (1995)

Also, in the 1990s, I determined that I AM the Grateful Goddess.

Grateful Goddess Joan

I AM Grateful for Life to learn lessons
My soul yearns to experience
I AM Grateful for Love that leads me in Divine Spirit
I AM Grateful for Joy of a new day
I AM Grateful for eyes to see beauty
I AM Grateful for ears to hear birds
I AM Grateful for Others who follow and lead
I AM Grateful for Work and Strength
I AM Grateful for Knowledge
I AM Grateful for a seeking Heart
I AM Grateful for Rage. It makes me think
It makes me act, react and ponder
I AM Grateful for technology that lets me say
I AM the Grateful Goddess!

Then, I learned the difference between gratitude and appreciation. Gratitude is something to pay to something or someone outside of yourself, while appreciation is something you do from within about something or someone outside of yourself. The inward feeling is more fulfilling than the outward homage you pay.

I APPRECIATE © 2010 Diva Joan Cartwright

I Appreciate Life to learn lessons
My soul yearns to experience
I Appreciate Love that leads me in Divine Spirit
I Appreciate Joy of a new day
I Appreciate eyes to see beauty
I Appreciate ears to hear birds
I Appreciate Others who follow and lead
I Appreciate Work and Strength
I Appreciate Knowledge
I Appreciate a seeking Heart
I Appreciate Rage. It makes me think.
It makes me act, react and ponder
I Appreciate technology that lets me say
I AM the Appreciative Goddess!

Years ago, I determined that “The lack of money is the root of all evil!”
Last night, I dreamt that I won the lottery.
This morning, I texted the number I dreamed $4,581 to my friend who plays the Florida lottery, often, and I played the Cash4 and Cash3 (481) in the Georgia lottery. I now give love and feel good about money. I see all my past due bills paid in full. I see my bank accounts full with two commas. I see my dream home on several acres in a beautiful setting with flora everywhere (and very little pollen!). I see two beautiful cars, a helicopter to deliver me wherever I need to be, speedily. I see my name on marquis around the world.

I am ever appreciative for living my purpose and fulfilling the dreams I’ve dreamt since I was a child. I see my children living in comfort and joy with their children and spouses. I AM so happy, every day. I am loving and loved. I AM at peace with the world and all the people in my sphere.

I AM THAT, I AM!
Diva JC

Friendship

It is during times of distress, duress, and trauma that you learn who your true friends are.  You can have an idea of who they are during good times. But it’s the hard times that truly reveal who the people are that really care about you.

When I determined that it was time for me to downsize, despite the warnings friends gave me nearly three years ago, I was traumatized for a few reasons. First and foremost, I had to move away from the lake that gave me such solace for six beautiful years.

Then, there was the realization that I had too much STUFF! It was overwhelming. That’s when my first friend stepped up to the plate. Sherry Rudolph operates a business, Legally Clean. She pitched in and packed all my books, CDs, and the kitchen! She even brought one of her workers to help pack up the dishes, pots, pans, utensils, and packaged goods. Sherry came twice and her help was invaluable!

Then, my realtor friend Lisa took me out to look at apartments. Even though I didn’t take any of them for one reason or another, Lisa referred me to the guy who packed the truck up. Tyrone brought his sidekick Randy and they did a really fast job of getting everything into the truck, with the exception of a few odds and ends that they fit into their pick-up truck.

The real distress came when the apartment I was to move into suddenly became unavailable because it was on the 5th floor and of the two elevators in the building, only one was operable. Security told us we could move the bed and a bookcase up in the available elevator but we had to carry everything else up the stairs. Well THAT was not going to happen. So, I was forced to decide whether to put everything in storage or leave it in the truck (at $44 plus per day), until I found another apartment.

On top of all of that, I missed the entrance into the storage facility, kept on driving with Tyrone in the pickup and my dear friend Marika in her jeep following me.  I turned into a Shell station, saw I had room to maneuver the truck through the station back on to the street to get back to the storage unit.  Only problem was that I miss calculated about one foot and tore the fender off or a woman’s car parked at the pump.

Let’s talk about trauma! Luckily, I took the U-Haul insurance @ $14 per day and the lady nor her passenger were hurt. The time we spent reporting the accident to the insurance company really took its toll on our little caravan. So, I decided to drive the truck from Hollywood to Wilton Manors, where I thought I could get a storage unit to unload the truck. But U-Haul’s storage unit was very expensive and the one free month came after I paid $189 plus tax. Turns out I left my stuff in the truck for four more days, for a total of five days @ $44 plus another $95 that I didn’t know I would have to pay for the dollies and furniture pads that we never used but someone (who, who, who) broke the seal and so I got to pay $25 just for the unused pads! and $14 a day for the two dollies (sheeeeeeeeeeeesh)!

Anyway, Marika saw that I was simply overwhelmed and offered her extra room to me. I spent the night there and the next day, I went to see an apartment in a senior complex owned by the friend of another friend of mine, Carolyn.  This place was tiny but very clean and fully furnished. At first, I thought I could just move my bed and a few pieces of my furniture in there but after some more thought, I decided to take it furnished and leave my stuff in storage. However, when I left that complex, my car decided she was going to be sick. Oh, nooooo, that just wouldn’t do.

So, my son, Michael suggested that I just stay with Marika, help her out financially, get my car fixed, and leave my stuff in storage until I find the place I really want to live in.  Then, Marika shouted out, “I could use a roommate!” That sealed the deal! So, I had two storage units, until my dear friend Jus’ Cynthia accompanied me up to the smaller unit, yesterday morning, to consolidate all of my stuff in the larger unit down in Hollywood. That done, now I just have to seek a nice, clean, modern, apartment that will contain my stuff and not cost me the arm and leg my old apartment was costing me. I’m downsizing from $1,256 a month to around $800-900 a month. I feel better already.

Now, I’m living comfortably with Marika and plan to move into my own place by May 1. What has happened is that, after living in Fort Lauderdale (the third leg of the Bermuda Triangle), since 1985, I’ve decided that I like Hollywood and will be looking for a place here. It’s 10 miles closer to Miami, where I’m contracted to do a play “It Ain’t Nothin’ But The Blues” with the M Ensemble. The play opens April 6-21, and rehearsal began February 25. So, for the next two months, I need to be closer to Miami. The downside is that I’m 10 miles further away from my father (93), who lives in West Palm Beach. Oh, well, there’s always an upside and a downside.

In the meantime, I’m not homeless and I feel very loved. That’s what’s important in life! and friends make that possible. Marika insisted that I keep a positive outlook. When I said “I’m homeless,” she said, “No you’re not!” She took me to her mechanic, who fixed my car in one day and didn’t overcharge me. Having my car repaired really took a load off of my mind.

I can get by with a little help from my friends! And the love from my family is so appreciated. My father, brother, son, daughter, and grandchildren all expressed good wishes for my safety and comfort.

Thank you and much love!
Diva JC

Moving

This year, after living in a spacious two-bedroom, two-bath apartment on a gorgeous lake for six years, I have uprooted my life to downsize.

Downsize. This is a word that has harassed so many people in the past decade that it is not funny. From the Tsunami in Indonesia and the more recent one in Japan to the devastation of Hurricane Sandy in the Northeastern states of America, people have been forced to downsize. A meteor actually hit buildings in Russia!

20120408_134622Something is in the air, causing human beings to re-access the value the place on things. Ownership is overrated. You learn that when a fire wipes out your belongings or when you move and realize that most of the stuff you have is from another decade or, in my case, another century.

Staying positive and not wallowing in the sorrow of being displaced has been a real challenge. Thankfully, I have friends who prefer to see me smile than cry. They have been diligent about keeping me upbeat through this time of change. Likewise, my father, brother, son, and daughter have offered words of consolation, agreeing that it was time for me to unload the heavy burden of high rent!

Now, I’m rooming with a girlfriend, who needed my help almost as much as I needed hers. This is such a blessing.

So, although moving from my beautiful lake traumatized me, I’m ok and far better off than the thousands, no millions of people who have suffered from the forced downsizing, resulting from natural disasters over the past two decades.

Ever the Grateful Goddess,

Diva JC

Victory of Light

I AM calling out to My Mighty I AM Presence, the Divine Director, all the Ascended Masters, and Guardian Angels to help me design and call forth the re-appearance of the design of my Garden of Life, my Home of Light, exquisitely beautiful, filled with all the treasures that my kind deeds have done, have brought forth and given Life. I desire only the Perfection, the Blessings which I have given forth to remain in my Garden.

In the cleansing and purifying of my feeling world comes Beauty again to my Garden of Life. I have the key to unlock the Garden-gate. I enter in! and see, all unknown to me in this world of human limitations and turmoil, my Garden of Light.

In my Home of Light is the Perfecting Activity going on, preparing for the day when I AM able to say to all human creation – “No longer have you power to remain in my world. Be thou gone forever!”

20120408_134622In the fullness of the Consciousness of Victory, will all that has taken unpleasant form in my Garden, disappear and wither away – dissolving to appear no more.

My short labor is in pouring out Loving kindliness to everything, my associates, every place, thing or condition because Life responds to the outpouring of Divine Love and becomes the Victory of Light!

My Palace of Light

There shall I dwell forever in the Victory of Light!The Harmonies of Life shall find their expression in the Great Melodies of Life! They are Transcendent in Power of Achievement. We will find the Dominion of our Being in the Power of the Light Rays!

Reading from Ascended Master Light from the Great Cosmic Being Mighty Victory, p. 525-529.

I call into action and draw by my Conscious Call into the physical octave of Earth, the Full Cosmic Action of the  Cosmic Legions of the Angels of Victory to eradicate and prevent anything which would bring revolution into America, attempt to cause destruction within Her borders, or create hatred of part of Her people against others who belong here also.

I call the Cosmic Legions of the Angels of Cosmic Victory into my business, my home, my affairs,  and around my loved ones to show me that the Powers of Light never forget Their own!

I AM the Cosmic Action of the Cosmic Flame of Cosmic Love, of Cosmic Forgiveness, and Cosmic Victory!

In this hour of final adjustment, reveal what our Heart’s Love for the Light can draw to our beloved Nation in this hour of Her decision for the Final Freedom of Mankind so that Peace can be permanent on the Earth.

I accept the Power of Victory that is surrounding me.

The Beloved Goddess of Light is the Victory of Light.  We call on Her Power, the Manifestation of the Victory of Light by gathering more Light by our Conscious Acknowledgment of Light to bring the onrush that is Victory forever.

We call for the Cosmic Power of Victory from the Electronic Belt around the Physical Sun for an amplification in Its Cosmic Action of the Planet Venus.

Meditation for Manifestation

I call on My Mighty I AM Presence and to all the Great Individualized Centers of Cosmic Action of the Light and the Sacred Fire to start into action the Power of Victory for which I call with love and gratitude.

This call strikes into the Greater Wave of Power and begins its return Currents to you in whatever Magnitude is required to fulfill your Calls.

Reading from The I AM Discourses, p. 311-315.

Being Light

west-emeraldlakeWhere I live looks pristine, right? Wrong!

With buzzing air conditioners, barking dogs, rushing traffic, and other sounds that attack the nervous system, it’s  challenging to remain calm and tune it all out.  This morning, I awoke out of a deep sleep to the sound of a grinding air conditioning unit outside my window.  I moved to the guest room and the same sound came throbbing, through the wall.  Rest broken, I arose, made a cup of coffee, took a video of the sound, posted it on Facebook, and resolved to be awake for the rest of the day.

This is after a week of listening to two dogs bark all day long, while their owners were at work.  Yes, I reported it to the rental office but as soon as they get one owner to stop putting their animal on the porch, overlooking a lake that serves as an echo chamber, another little beast’s owner decides that the porch is where the dog belongs. I cannot figure out for the life of me why people who are gone from home all day long think they need a dog at all.  It is unfair to the animal that has separation anxiety and I am the one who suffers because I work from home.

In light of these disturbances, I decided to write it out.  I need to keep my mind occupied so I don’t hear the traffic, the drone of the 12 air conditioning units outside my bedroom window, and the yapping of unhappy dogs.  Being in the light is a conscious decision.  Releasing the pain and suffering from the experiences of life is an everyday affair that takes strength and fortitude.

At the beginning of January, an associate of my daughter sat in his car and took his own life.  This news came on the heels of the death of two of my very close friends, who suffered with cancer for three years, each.  I’m wondering why we choose to live at all.  What is the purpose of life?

While we’re being human, that is, spiritual beings being human, it takes real effort to remember to be LIGHT,  to LIGHTEN up!  Don’t take yourself seriously.  Live in the world but don’t be of it.  But you are in the world.  You are of it.  You react to outside stimuli, whether you like it or not and complaining gets some things fixed, while other things that rake your nerves can never be avoided.

It’s a great world, except that people are in it.  Watching the news is depressing.  Listening to the troubles of others makes you see that you really don’t have any problems at all.  Yet, you can find something to complain about every minute of the day.  So, these questions present themselves:

  • How do I stay in the LIGHT?
  • Who has the answer?
  • When will I be released into the LIGHT?
  • Why am I so uncomfortable on Planet Earth?
  • What is the use and purpose of Life?
  • Will I ever understand the point of pain and suffering?
  • Is there an end to discomfort?
  • Is it even feasible to think that comfort can be obtained?
  • When do I get to be LIGHT?

Mystics, scholars, scientists, doctors, and laypeople have tossed these questions around for centuries.  Abraham-Hicks offers solutions dealing with staying in the vortex.  But in my vortex these disturbances exists.  I want to know how to get them out of my vortex.  No more droning air conditioners. No more yapping dogs.  No more screeching children.  No more motor sounds.

Now, can I eliminate these sounds from my life without committing suicide?

How can I envision a life without disturbing sounds?

Where on Earth are there soothing sounds that calm the heart and mind?

If the Law of Attraction has brought me to this place, where I cannot sleep in the night and am disturbed by noise in the daytime, what do I need to attract to change this experience?

I call on My Mighty I AM Presence and all my guardian angels to show me the answers that I need.

The difference between humans and beasts is discussed in this video

This is my meditation, today:

I exercise my choice to be happy.

Lift me up where I belong!

Earthly Things

jc-hair2I AM happy, rested
Sure that all is well
Dear friends have departed
And taken on Angel’s wings
While those who remain
Dwell on Earthly Things.

Diva JC

This poem is in tribute to my very dear sisters Bess and Tinubu, who crossed over to the 4th dimension on Dec. 20 and 23, respectively.  Then, yesterday, I learned about the suicide of a third acquaintance. Well, I didn’t know him but he was cast as the love interest in my daughter’s play “Woman! The Musical” and it was most disturbing to learn of his self-inflicted demise.
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In retrospect, my daughter wrote on her Facebook wall:
mimijohnson-face2“You know you have a fruitful life when you sit for a moment silently and think about the things you “NEED” and say…..I’M STRAIGHT!That’s my life!THANK YOU TO THE MOST HIGH FOR A FRUITFUL AWESOME LIFE! ♥” ~ Mimijohnsondotnet
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Happy New Year

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To all my family members, friends, musicians, and associates, may the new year 2013 bring you all the opportunities you desire to be healthy, wealthy, wise, and joyful.

Keep your dream close to your heart and your mind will know the answer.
While your soul plays the chords, you imagination can be the dancer.

Love and Light,
Diva JC

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